In the midst of this quickly-changing political land(hell)scape, I wanted to take some time to write a “letter” to those feeling fearful, uncertain, or disempowered. My hope here is to provide affirmation and validation, and for you to feel seen and heard.
I want to start off by saying that regardless of what laws are passed, no matter what orders are signed by those who want to erase us, we are here. We’ve always been here. Your existence is a truth that does not rely on recognition, permission, or societal approval.
I know this is a heavy time to exist in marginalized bodies. Many of you are tired of being called "brave" or "resilient,” tired of shouldering the weight of discrimination and systemic oppression. And yet, here you are—still living, still loving, still showing up. That alone is an act of defiance, and care.
But let me be clear: you shouldn’t have to prove your worth or constantly fight to be seen as fully human. And yet, the fight for gender-affirming care, housing equity, safety, employment protections, justice for Black and brown trans lives, and the freedom to simply be, continues. It’s exhausting, it’s necessary, and we are allowed to rest.
Rest isn’t weakness. Rest is preservation and revolution. Rest is being gentle with yourself in a world that often refuses to do the same. Rest is knowing that you are worthy, not because of how much you fight or how loudly you advocate, but simply because you exist.
In the midst of this fight, remember to lean into your joy, your laughter, and your love. Hug your people—your chosen family, your partners, your friends, your community. Celebrate the moments of safety and care you create together. Dance. Cry. Be messy. Let yourself take up space in ways that feel liberating. Let yourself be.
And know this: you are not alone. There are people and resources out there just for you. There are online and local communities, support groups, and therapists who understand, who care, who prioritize the well-being of queer and BIPOC folx. You deserve connection. You deserve to be seen. You deserve to be held in gentleness and love.
As we move forward—together—I want to encourage you to take care of yourself in whatever ways feel right. That might look like joining in activism. It might look like retreating to protect your peace. It might look like speaking out, or it might look like holding close to your safe spaces and people. Every choice to protect and care for yourself is a valid one.
Remember, your existence is not just resistance—it is celebration, it is joy, it is love. It is the deeply human act of continuing to be, against all odds. Keep going. Keep resting. And know that you are enough.
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